Let's say Communication isn't Working

Communication works only when people:

Are not overwhelmed by emotions

Think rationally

Stay focused

Are willing to compromise

Know what they want

Can express themselves clearly

Unfortunately, all of those conditions are rare.

So, let’s say communication isn’t working.

Now, bear with me for a minute:

Relationships are built on companionship, love, and sex.  Different combinations of these three aspects yield specific types of relationships, BUT let’s focus on the most rewarding relationship, the type that involves (or simply has the potential to involve) all three aspects. 

Good companionship, healthy love, and great sex all involve communication.  When conflicts arise, often times the ideal conditions for communication disappear.  Tempers shorten, fights erupt, and the relationship deteriorates.  Ignoring the issues will not help.  (Angry fights may help express feelings and relieve some pent up tension, however, they will not solve anything permanently).  Companionship and love ultimately rely on communication; and instead of becoming frustrated with the situation, giving the issue time and allowing for better communication conditions to return may result in a very simple solution to whatever problem exists.  Now, yes, great sex only results from successful communication, but after being with someone for awhile, good sex can still result from no communication. 

So, conclusion time:

The ideal conditions for communication need time to return.

The relationship is deteriorating in the mean time.

The Sex is still good.

Use the good sex to slow the deteriorating of the relationship while you wait for communication to return.

Your partner may not want to talk about the issue or may not want to talk at all, but if they still pay attention to your clitoris, then at least one aspect of the relationship will be alive and well.  Hopefully the rest will return.